In order to stop spending time and effort on cleaning, the young mother turned out to be enough of the whole seven ordinary words, written by her husband, writes Mail.Ru.
Every evening, for many years, Maria, persisted, as she herself admits, on purity and order, cleaned in the children's playroom, by the end of the day it is usually a flat layer of toys, details from the designer, books, pencils, felt-fauces, and so on, and that Similar. During Maternity, Mary left countless hours to ensure that the room was in perfect condition for the next morning, everything that was lying on the floor was laid out and placed in places. And every time in the evening everything was returned to the circles.
At the same time, the mess of the mess in their room did not bother at all. "Many times I started with them the same conversation:" How do you take it out? It's impossible to go here. " And they answer: "No, we can walk here. We even play the classics, jumping through toys, "said Maria in his post on Facebook.
One day, my husband saw how completely exhausted Maria, standing on the floor kneeling, sorts the details from LEGO in colors. And then the husband said a phrase from seven words, which completely changed her life: "Why don't you just close the door?"
"I looked at him. It was like a bright flash. I waited for it to join me on the floor, helping to disassemble the mountains of LEGO. And he instead said these seven words. It turned out that it was all that I need. I got up with my knees and just closed the door to the nursery, "Maria writes. - Now everyone talks about how important the parents take care of themselves. And indeed it is. After all, so just lose yourself, caring for others. But care for yourself is not a simple matter. It also requires time, energy and help. But sometimes it is very simple. Caring for yourself is to progress the chocolate and eat it. Caring for yourself is to include cartoons and drink coffee. Hot. Caring for yourself - send children to sleep early and spend time with her husband on the sofa. Caring for yourself - close the door. "
Since then, the life of Mary has grown up - she is no longer cleaned in the children's room, the order there children suggest once a week, and all the rest of the time the chaos reigns in the room, and this is normal. "Because I can quite live with a closed door," the post of Mary has completed its popular in social networks. From October 30, he collected more than a thousand likes, more than 400 publications and more than a hundred comment. Someone rejoices for Mary and agrees with her, someone is surprised that her husband told his magic words so soon, someone shares her experience in handling the pleasure of children's toys in the house. Some moms write about the fact that, unfortunately, they cannot go in the footsteps of Mary, as the children's game is also a living room, a dining room and a bedroom, so just close the door and not pay attention to the kavardak does not work.
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