Uninzi lukhalaza nje ukuba abazali abalupheleyo baye banyamezele: Ngaba uyakrokrela, ocaphuka, ecaphukisa. Umnqweno wokubanceda baguqukele ekubeni bahenyuzo, uqoqosho lube yinto entle, kunye nothando lokuthetha - ukuzama ukuphuma kwishishini lakhe.
Imiyalelo malunga nonqulo lwabazali. Awuyi kuphikisana naye ... kodwa ungayenza njani? Ungafunda njani nambeze xa abazali besiva?
Indlela Yokukhulisa Abazali
Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba unobangela wetyala lase-StamakovSky, ukuboleka, ukungalingani kokomoya. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, umntu uziva engonwabanga, ngokungeyomfuneko, aluphele, uyagula. Uhlazo lwangaphakathi luvelisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezichitha abanye.
Kwenzeka ukuba imeko ichithwe ngenxa yokugula. Ngapha koko, ukuba umntu unesifo esinenkqantosi, hlala unamandla, usebenze kwaye ochwayisayo unzima kakhulu.
Baninzi, ewe, balwa ngeentlungu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha "baqengqeleka" nakwicala labo, bayakhala, baziva bekhulile, baziva bekhulile, baziva bekhulile.
Ukulungiswa kwe-concervatism kunye nokukhatywa kwenqanaba okutsha kukukukude kukubonisa umlingisi ochithiweyo. Inyani yile yokuba nge-75-80, umntu utshatyalaliswa ngama-30 ukuya kwi-40% ye-neurons kwingqondo.
Inqanaba lokuqonda kunye nokusetyenzwa kolwazi kuncitshisiwe. Ke, abantu abadala bengakhange baxhamle xa bengavumiyo ukuba bayisebenzise i-smartphone eboniswe.
Ndiyeke ukuba nomsindo kwaye ndikhutyekiswe ngabazali abalupheleyo: ukuba bakufumana, ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo azikuko ngqo. Zama ukubabethelela kunye nengqwalaselo. Umhleli "ulula!" Thatha amabinzana ama-4 eza kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane.
- Nceda
Abantu abadala bahlala bejongana nento yokuba uncedo alusafuneki. Bonke ubomi bakhe basebenza: basebenza, bakhulisa abantwana, babandakanyeka kwimicimbi kawonke-wonke. Kwaye ngelo xesha xa wonke umntu esikhulileyo, kwaye ipension yaba yinto yokwenyani, inceda kwaye akukho mntu.
Khumbula, imvakalelo yokubaluleka kwaye ukubaluleka kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abadala. Ke ngoko, buza umama okanye utata malunga noncedo, nokuba ungayenza yonke into ngokwakho. Ungacela umama wakho ukuba ancede ekuphekeni okanye ukupheka kubazukulwana.
Ngokubanzi, ilahlekile kunabazali kunokuba luncedo. Oku kuyakunceda ukhusela imbonakalo yokubonakala kobuchule kubazali.
- Nceda Cebisa
Abantu abadala bayathanda ukucebisa. Baphila ubomi, banamava amakhulu emva kwetyala labo, kwaye banento yokwabelana ngayo.
Nokuba usenza ngendlela yam, cela umama wakho okanye uPepe yeBhunga kwizihloko ezahlukeneyo. Oku kuya kubanceda bahlala bekwimilo elungileyo kwaye baziva ukubaluleka kwabo.
- Ndifuna ukukuqonda
Ngokwesiqhelo ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana abadala kunye nabazali buyakhiwe kwimbono "kufuneka - akufuneki". Ewe kunjalo, akulunganga.
Kodwa, ngelishwa, oku kuyenzeka, kuba abantu abalupheleyo banxunguphele kwaye bahlala benganamntu ukuba babelane nabo kwishawa (kwaye bahlala beboyika iingcinga zabo).
Ke ngoko, zama ukuqonda abazali bakho kwaye ubaxelele ukuba awufuni kungekuphela nje ukuzalisekisa umsebenzi wakho, kodwa unqwenela ukuba nolwalamano olomeleleyo nolunyanisiweyo. Ubukho babo buya kuqhuba izinto ezininzi.
- Ndiyabulela nge…
Sihlala sibulela abazali babo? Ngelishwa, hayi rhoqo. Ngenxa yokuba ubudlelwane buyakhelwa kwimbonakalo yomsebenzi, asinayo inkuthazo yangaphakathi yokubulela abazali. Nokuba zizinto ezincinci. Kwaye abantu abadala badinga kakhulu, njengoko befuna ukuqiniseka ukuba bahlala ngelize.
Abantu abayi kukhubekile ngenxa yokuba ngabantu nje. Abanye bethu bayaluphala kwaye baguquka kwizifo kunye nobudala kumaTirani, ngelixa abanye bahlala kufutshane - bebandezeleka, benengxaki kunye noxanduva oluninzi olwandisa emsebenzini.
Hayi kumandla ethu ukurhoxisa umzali oluphala, kodwa siyakwazi ukwenza oko kuya kwenza lula ubomi bethu ngokudibeneyo, kuya kukwenza ukuba kungabi lula ukuba sibe namandla aneleyo okukhumbula: Omabini amaqela anento yokwenza ixesha elincinci lokuthandana ngaphandle kwayo yonke into.
Iifilimu malunga nesiphithiphithi kubomi bentsapho sihlala sinceda ekujongeni ubudlelwane babo ukusuka kwicala. Ungaphoswa ithuba lakho lokwenza kwaye ugcine usapho-uqhele ukukhetha kwethu iifilimu ezilungileyo zolwalamano oluqinileyo.
Abazali abacingayo yonke imihla baxelele umntwana la mabinzana asi-8! Umhleli "ulula!" Xelela ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuva abantwana kubazali bethu kwaye zeziphi iimpawu zomlinganiswa ezikhula.
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