Xa unomdla wokuhamba, kwaye ufuna izimvo zomsebenzi omtsha, ke usenokuba ukhangela izinto ezininzi kwisihloko. Andinguye owahlukileyo. Kwaye ke, ukufundisisa indawo elandelayo yokutyibilikwa, ndabaleka ndaya kwimisebenzi engaqhelekanga yomculi omnye waseMelika uNathan Vincent (Natan Vincent), kwaye ndaqonda ukuba into enomdla kakhulu. Nanamhlanje, qhubeka ibali lam malunga nabantu abathi, ndiza kukuxelela ngoNathan Vincent, kunye nemisebenzi yakhe.
UNatan wazalwa kwaye wakhulela kwi-Minip ephakathi kwintsapho yomfundisi, kwaye wanyanzelwa ukuba aphile kwaye anamathele kwisimilo sosapho kunye namanye amanzi angqongqo eluntwini. Kodwa wayenenxaxheba kwinto awayeyiyo umphefumlo wakhe, kwaye yintoni engenayo inkwenkwe kwi: yobugcisa, ukuzoba kunye nomculo. UNathan wafumana imfundo yasekhaya, wangena kwisikolo sobugcisa se-quifornian, kwaye emva kweminyaka emithathu wafudukela eNew York ukuba aqhubeke nezifundo zakhe. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala ebomini bakhe, waziva ekhululekile kwisixeko sakhe esitsha. Abantu bamamkela njengoko wayenjalo, kwaye bayamkela into awayefuna ukuyenza. UNatan ubuze ukuba angathini na umsebenzi wakhe. Ufunda ukuba abantu bachukumiseke yimigangatho yesini, eseka uluntu. Kutheni le nto ingaba yinto engaqhelekanga xa umntu egqumayo, kwaye le ntombazana iqhuba imoto? Kwakuthi ke ukuba uNathan uqalise ukuveza ne-crochet, ukuze avakalise iingcinga zakhe, ukuba anikele ingqalelo kuyo. Iqala ukugxeka i-stereotypes yesini ngokwenza "izinto ezingamadoda" usebenzisa "ingxowa-mali yabasetyhini", ezinjenge-crochet, yokuthunga kunye ne-appliqué.
I-En-Scressitions ezingezizo zemveli ezinxulumene ne-crochet indivumela ukuba ndinikele ingqalelo kwimithombo, inkuthazo kunye nentsingiselo malunga nengxaki yokumisela isini sokumisela isini.
Izinto ezininzi eziye zadalwa uNathan ziphefumlelwe ziinkumbulo zomnqweno wokufumana isibindi.
IiMasters zichithe ixesha elininzi kwiigaraji ezinezixhobo, bawenza wonke umsebenzi onzima egadini.
Iimpelaveki abazichitha ekhaya, kwisitulo esithambileyo phambi kweTV, kunye nolawulo olukude ezandleni, kumdlalo webhola yebhola.
Abakhi bomzimba kunye nemijelo ye-nan yenzelwe uNatan ngokwamasimongo kunye namandla.
Kwaye abazingeli, bavakalisa izakhono zabo ngokubulawa kwezilwanyana kunye nemiboniso yeentloko zabo.
Uyakhumbula uNathan - "Ndikhumbula kakuhle umnqweno wokuphezulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndisebenzise umchamo njengabafana abakhulu."
NgokukaNathan, izinto ezinxulunyaniswa nezimvo zakwayindoda, zitshabalalisa izithintelo zembono yesini yesini. Abasakhangeli broke ubrade kwaye babe nesibindi, kwaye bathambe, banomtsalane kwaye banomtsalane.
Okwangoku, uNathan Vincent uphila kwaye usebenza eNew York. Imisebenzi yakhe iboniswa kwimyuziyam kunye neegalari zaseMelika. Baza batyhila iimpapasho ezingamazwe. UNathan wathatha inxaxheba kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zikamabonwakude, kwaye ngo-2008 wafumana umvuzo njengogqwesileyo ukusuka kwibhaso lasentshona.
Ukujonga umsebenzi wakhe, umntu ngamnye unokufumana into entsha, into engaqhelekanga. Yibani ngokukhululekileyo kwi-on esinqinileyo sms kwaye undixelele into oyibonayo kwimisebenzi yakhe kwaye zithetha ntoni kuwe? Zive ukhululekile ukuba wabelane ngeempembelelo zakho.
Umbhali wenqaku uAndrei Bogan
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