Imithetho esisiseko
Nantoni na ayisiyonto nje, enye yewadi, yendoda enxibe umzimba wakhe womzimba. Xa umntu ephethe into ethile, izele ngamandla ayo kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, le nto ifumana unxibelelwano lwamandla ombane, ngelixa ulinxalenye yomfanekiso wakhe.
Oko kukuthi, nayiphi na into yakho inonxibelelwano lwamandla ngokobuqu, ukuze ukwazi kwakho (kwiingcinga, iimvakalelo, amava obuqu kunye nemikhosi ethile yehlabathi eliphantsi. Ngandlel 'ithile, kunokutshiwo ukuba yonke into yakho incinci kodwa ingumthombo wamandla akho. Oko kukuthi, umntu oqalisa ukunxiba into yakho unokufikelela kumandla akho, kwaye amandla akho aya kuthi aphembelele.
Kuya kubakho ifuthe elihle okanye alikho kakhulu - lixhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi.
Umzekelo, ukuba abantu ababini bayathandana, kwaye umfazi uphefumla ihempe yomyeni, xa engeyoyo ekhaya - ihlala isoyikisa. Uyamthanda, uswele amandla akhe oyindoda, kwaye ihlawula ngayo le nto inxiba izinto ezaliswe yinto ezaliswe ngamandla ayo. Ukhululekile kule, kwaye ulungile.
Kunokutshiwo okufanayo kubantwana abathanda ukunxiba izinto abazali abathandayo. Olu luqhagamshelo nje ongezelelweyo kumandla kamama wabo notata. Rhoqo inokusebenza njengembuyekezo yexesha lokungabikho ngexesha lonxibelelwano oluhlala, njl.
Oko kukuthi, ukunxiba izinto zomnye umntu kunokuba nefuthe elihle. Oku, kubandakanya ukunxibelelana nomfanekiso omnye umntu, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, kwiimpawu zayo ezithile ezinokuqeqeshwa. Umzekelo, xa uNyana ezama indlela yasemkhosini kayise okanye umntakwabo, emele amandla kwaye enesibindi, amandla kwaye edityaniswe nomlo wegorha elingoyikiyo, umntu olihlonipho, ongumnini we iyunifomu. Kwaye ke ayizukuzama nje komnye umntu, ahlangabezana nemeko ethile, imvakalelo ethile, amandla akhethekileyo enkalipho, imbeko, ukungoyiki, kwaye ngalo mzuzu iimpawu ezihambelana nazo zityhilelwa engqondweni yakhe. Lo ngumzuzu wokukhula, onika ukukhula kwakhe kunye nokukhula ngokomoya.
Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde kwaye uthathe kancinci, kodwa kungekuphela nje, kodwa kunye nokubi.
Xa unxibe izinto zabanye abantu engacetyiswa kwaye eyingozi?
Ukunxiba izinto zabanye abantu azimi kwiimeko ezininzi:
- Ukuba umniniyo akakhuselekanga, uyagula, okanye ungumntu ombi kakhulu (thwala ububi obuninzi). Zonke izinto zomntu onjalo zihlala zizaliswe ziinkukhu, zihlala zibaluleke kakhulu okanye zinezinto ezimbi) zamandla (emnyama), ukusuka apho umntu oqhelekileyo ofanelekileyo unokuba mbi kakhulu. Ukuba unxiba umntu ongasebenziyo okanye umntu ongalunganga, iingxaki zayo, izifo, iKarma engalunganga, nje atshabalalisa amandla anokuba yingozi kuwe nakwikamva lakho. Ndicinga ukuba weva ukuba izinto zinokunxiba isiqalekiso, umntu ophetheyo ngumnini wabo. Nangona kunjalo, kwakhona, le nto inokucocwa ngesiko elikhethekileyo lokuphuma.
- Musa ukunxiba umntu oswelekileyo izinto, ngakumbi ukuba zisuswe kwisidumbu.
- Akukho sidingo sokunganxibi izinto ezintsha ukuba awunazo iikhonsepthi ezizahlule kuwe. Kodwa apha kukho ingqondo, kuba nayiphi na into inokwenziwa ngokwakhe, isuse amandla omnini wangaphambili ngaphandle, kwaye uyidibanise namandla ayo. I-ofisi efanelekileyo, abanyanga bahlala bonwabile abo bacinga babona bacinga, kwanaxa befumana into entsha ngokupheleleyo kwivenkile.
Ukuba ufumene uhlobo oluthile lwesihloko okanye inxenye yomhlobiso, ukuba umntu othile uninike into - le nto kufuneka ibe ngamandla kwaye inolwazi kwaye iqhagamshele kumandla akho.
Yenze njani into kwaye ususe amandla omnye umntu ngayo? Iskimu ngokubanzi.
- Ukubhena kweyona mikhosi iphakamileyo kunye ne-phantom ngaphambili yento ngesicelo sokukhetha amandla akho kwizinto nakulo lonke uqhagamshelo.
- Cela owona mandla unamandla kunye nabaxhasi babo - ukususa okanye ukutshisa lonke unxibelelwano lwakudala kunye namandla kule nto. Konke oku kwenziwa, ngokufanelekileyo, kwi-monogram elungileyo. Ungaqhakamshelana namazwi akho, ngohlobo lokuthandaza ngokusuka entliziyweni. Ukongeza, ungathumela isandla sakho sasekunene kwinto ekhethiweyo ukuze amandla omlilo adlula kuwe, kwaye onke amandla awodwa atshisiwe.
- Isicelo seyona mikhosi iphakamileyo kunye nabaphangi babo - banike umxholo owenza owakho, lonke unxibelelwano olwenziwe ngamandla olufunayo, yizalise amandla anengqinayo nako lomntu, ukuze ikhululwe kakhulu kuwe.
Kodwa ukuba umlingo omnyama uchazwe ngaphezulu kwesiko ukhulisiwe, kaninzi, ayiyi kwanela. Ukususa umlingo kwizinto okanye ukonakala- ufuna umsebenzi wengcali.
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