Entliziyweni yabantu, thina, bafazi, luhlobo lwe-ahilleles yesihlanu. Ngakumbi xa besithanda. Amanenekazi amaninzi abuze umbuzo: Batsho ukuba babuza njani umyeni wakhe malunga nale okanye omnye umntu ogqithisileyo ukuba uyala okanye awukhathalele? Nantso into endiyithetha kuwe: ubuza ngokungachanekanga. Lixesha lokutshintsha amaqhinga!
1. Nika ubushushu
Uncume kuye, yenzekalisa i-cilia yakho. Ekugqibeleni, uyayazi indlela yokufota, kwaye xa esi sixhobo sabetha umyeni wakho ngaphandle. Kwimeko, xa usiya kufutshane ne-kitty, ayizukukwazi ukwala. Ngapha koko, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba umfazi wakhe wonwabe, kwaye ukuba umfazi wonwabe kwaye onwabile, onwabile kwaye wanelisekile yindoda.2. Yiba yintombi efuna uncedo
Waba ngumyeni wakho kungekuphela nje kuba uyakuthanda, kodwa nokuba ufuna ukwahlula ubunzima bakho kunye nawe, nceda usombulule iingxaki zakho. Ukuba ucela isicelo sokunyamezela inkunkuma okanye uhlale nabantwana ukuba ungabi ngamanyala eqela, ngokuzenzekelayo uyayindoda, kwaye uphantsi komfazi wakhe. Vumela intambo ivulekile endlwini yakho inkohla, kwaye uyayibulela ngayo. Ixabisa kakhulu!
3. Nika kancinci, thatha kancinci
Le ndlela isebenza kakhulu xa ucela into ebalulekileyo. Kwaye xa uyazi ukuba sicela kakhulu. Okokuqala, gxininisa ingqalelo kwinto esele yenziwe, kwaye emva koko ivakalise isicelo. Ngendlela, abantwana abanobuqhetseba banobuchule ngokugqibeleleyo: Ibinzana elithi "Mama, sele ndenze izifundo, ndingahamba nabafana?" -Igama leklasikhi. Ungathetha into enje: "Ndilungiselele isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye ndithenge ibhiya oyithandayo, ngaba ungawubeka uhlamba kwaye uchithe cwaka, ndide ndidibane namantombazana?"4. Ukuthandwa
Ubuchule bufumana konke konke. Amadoda angayikhathali. Xa bathambisa ubugcisa bobuqhetseba, bakulungele ukuzalisekisa phantse nawuphi na umnqweno.
5. Ukupela ngaphandle kwamagama
Yiya kwiqabane lam, hugn, cinezela kancinci ukuya kwinkalipho yakhe eyomeleleyo kunye nokanga. Kiss vermed. Mayimthobe kwaye isothuse. I-kiss kufuneka ingothuse. Kwaye emva koko omnye, emva kwe-2-3, emva koko, buza ukuba ufuna ntoni. Uyabona, uya kukuvuyela ukufezekisa umnqweno wakho.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba nenzondelelo. Musa ukushukumisa. Uyabulala naluphi na ulwalamano. Yenza nje ezi ndlela ziyinxalenye yomdlalo onokuthi uchithe umlilo kwaye ixhase umlilo kwi-bony bon.
Umthombo