Ngaphandle komahluko kwimfundo, iVidiyo kunye neenqobo ezixabisekileyo zobomi, wonke umntu obhinqileyo uyafuna ukuziqonda aze wonwabe ngokwenene.
Siqokelele izifundo ezininzi eziluncedo kwi-FAR yaseJamani, eya kuthi ifundise ukuzinyamekela kunye nendawo yabo.
Umfazi ubulumko
- Sukujonga le ndoda njengendlela yokusombulula iingxaki
Kwaye inqaku apha ayikho kwaphela ekukhupheleni okanye inkanuko yokuphakama. Ngapha koko, abantu abakho ngonaphakade. Iqabane lakho kunye nenkxaso ethembekileyo yakho linokulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, suka kuwe okanye ushiye ubomi. Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba uza kuthembela ntoni umntu onzima.
Kodwa ukuba awufundi ukuzixhasa ngokuzimela iingxaki eziwe kuwe, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi. Inkathalo ithathelwa indawo ngobomi, kwaye oku kubandakanya uninzi lweemeko ezimbi neemvakalelo. Ungubani abantu abadala kwaye kuya kufuneka nilungiselele ubomi bomnye, kuba oku uhamba egxalabeni lam.
- Yiba ngokwakho, hayi umgcini wendlu yomntu, umama okanye umfazi
AmaJamani awavutha ngumsebenzi owoyikayo kwaye akanciphisi kakhulu ukubaluleka kobuso okanye umtshato, njengoko kunokubonakala ekuqaleni. Abazenzeli le njongo yobomi babo. Ziyinyani. Zilungele yonke into. Ukunganyamezeleka kwelinye lamaqabane, ukungabikho komntu onokuthi kuyenzeka ubudlelwane obubi kakhulu ziinyani zehlabathi lanamhlanje.
Apha umfazi ngumntu omnye njengendoda. Kwaye ukuba indoda eneminyaka kwaye ngaphandle kwentsapho ithathelwa ingqalelo 'yingcuka endala ", emva koko' 'yi" ingonyamakazi yakudala ", hayi" imbi-mbi "kunye nesidalwa" esingenanto "nesidalwa ngelishwa. Kwaye ukuba ibisethamsanqa, kwaye indlu ivakala endlwini yemilenze emincinci, emva koko isilumko saseJamani asiyi kuzifihla iiholide kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo.
Ewe, ngumama nenkosikazi, kodwa uthandane nokwenza i-diving kwaye enze i-tattoos, umzekelo. Unezinto ezininzi izilangazelelo zobuqu kunye namatyala. Ngapha koko, kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuziva ngathi ngumntu kwaye wonwabe nangayiphi na imeko.
- Ubomi bobuqu babuqu - into yabo
EJamani, awusoze uphinde uyive imibuzo efana "Kutheni ungatshatanga / ngaphandle kwenkwenkwe / engazalwanga?". Nokuba iminyaka, inqabile kwaye ilunge kakhulu kwaye ilunge kakhulu. Uninzi luya kumangaliswa, kodwa ungazithandi amaJamani ukuba athethe ngobomi bomnye umntu, kwaye kunjalo.
Isenokubonakala ngathi le ibonisa uhlobo oluthile lokuxhalaba okanye ukungabikho kwembandezelo. Kodwa emva kwethuba uqala ukuqonda ukuba le yindlela elungileyo. Ungathetha ngamava akho angaphakathi okanye iingxaki kunye nodadewethu okanye umama, umzekelo, kodwa kuphela ukuba ufuna ngokwenene. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayithandeki xa ijijeke yeyona susula isuswe kakhulu ngaphandle kwesidingo. Ubomi bobuqu buqu, ukufuna izizathu kunye nokuphuma.
- Kuyimfuneko ukuba kube lula
I-frau inqabile kakhulu malunga nento okanye ithe cwaka okanye ivelise ubunxungxwa. Ukuba akayithandi into, uya kuthi. Ukuba uvila kakhulu ukuya kwintlanganiso nomhlobo wakhe, akakhangeli iihopsi zobudenge, kodwa akafuni, kuba akafuni namhlanje. Ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo.
Ukuba uyancipha ngamandla okanye uxinzelelo, ayiziphangala ngomsebenzi okanye kwimicimbi, kodwa uye kwagqirha kwaye uthatha isibhedlele ukuze uzikhele kwaye uphumle nje. Ukuba ayilathi ilungelelene nezithende, ayinxibi izihlangu, kodwa iya kwizini.
- Ubuhle bendalo
Ngendlela, malunga nembonakalo. Uninzi lwethu lubonakala ngathi amaJamani aqhuba intonga kunye nesimo sengqondo sabo sokubonakala. Siqhele ukuba yonke imihla, igumbi lokuya emsebenzini okanye kwivenkile yiholide. Kodwa abafazi abangamaJamani babudlelwane obungaziwayo kwinkangeleko yabo banele: ukuba ayisiyondawo yokwamkela okanye umtshato, ibhulukhwe ekhululekileyo, i-meikap yendalo kukhetho losuku.
Kwaye nokuba ilula kakhulu, kubonakala ngathi, ayisiyonto ingumntu obhinqileyo kakhulu. Ibhulukhwe inokuba lula, ikhululekile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye. Endaweni yokubamba i-makeng-imihlobiso engaqhelekanga. Kwaye usempilweni, icocekile kwaye icocekile kwaye icocekile kakuhle - eyona nto ibalulekileyo.
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