Ngamnye wethu wahlukile, kodwa iingcali zengqondo aziyeki ukufumana iindlela zokuziphatha ezibekwe kuthi ukususela ebuntwaneni.
- Ukufumanisa ukuba uyakuthanda, khetha igama elinye Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha umnxibelelanisi uya kubiza okanye amabinzana afanayo, hambani kwaye uncume. Ukuba umhle ngokwaneleyo, uya kuqaphela ukuba umntu usebenzisa eli Lizwi rhoqo.
- Ukuba uyafuna uku, Ukuthathwa nzulu Ndixelele ukuba utata uthe. Abantu bathanda ukumela ukukholelwa ngengcebiso kubazali.
- Yiba yintshatsheli yomdlalo "ngamatye, isikere, iphepha", Icacisa umchasi nawuphi na umbuzo ngqo ngaphambi kokuqala komdlalo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abadlali abadidekileyo bakhuphe "isikere".
- Ukuba uyafuna uku, Kumnxibelelanisi wakho uvumile Ungalibali ukulandela umbuzo. I-kivok ibonwa njengomqondiso wokuba yonke into oyithethayo yinyani entle. Ukongeza, emva kwemithetho yokuziphatha kwezentlalo, abantu bathanda ukungaphenduli.
- Ngaba ukhe waphupha ngeyona ndlela ishiyekileyo ye-8 AM? Kwiindawo zabantu abakhulu, bona ulwalathiso lwentshukumo yakho. Uya kumangalisa ukuba isihlwele siphukile phambi kwakho. Imfihlo ilula: kwiindawo ezixineneyo, abantu bajonga emehlweni abanye abahamba ngeenyawo ukuze baqonde apho bakhokelwa khona, kwaye bengabijonganga.
- Ukuba unayo Ingoma ibambekile entlokweni ungayilibali , Khumbula ukuphela kwengoma. Ngokwesiphumo se-zeigarnik, ingqondo yethu ikhumbula izinto ezingafezekanga. Ke ngoko, ukuba ucinga malunga nokuphela kwengoma, iya kuphela.
- Ufuna abantwana bakho ukuba batye i-broccoli? Endaweni yokubuza ukuba bayawafuna, babuze ukuba zingaphi iziqwenga zokuyibeka: 5 okanye 2, Sele unyule i-broccoli kubo, kodwa abantwana baziva ngathi bagqibe kwelokuba bagqibe kwelokuba. Ungasebenzisa eli qhinga ngokufana kwezinye iimeko.
- Ukuba ucinga ukuba ubukele Kanye yaw kwaye ujongeka njengabantu ngeenxa zonke . Ekubeni i-yawwe ibanjiwe, uqinisekisiwe ukuba ufunde ukuba ngubani okubonayo.
- Kuya kuqina kuya kukunceda udlulise nantoni na Umzekelo, ibhokisi, ukuba, ukuba, ukuyidlulisa, uya kuqhubeka nengxoxo. Uninzi lwabantu aluyi kuqaphela iqhinga kwaye uthathe ibhokisi. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ulumkele abantu abanikela ingqalelo- banokuba neentloni.
- Ukuba unomsebenzi wesandla, qinisekisa ukuba izandla zakho zishushu kakuhle. Izandla ezishushu zinxulunyaniswa nabantu abanobuhlobo kunye nobuhlobo Ngelixa uchukumisa isandla esibandayo kunokubangela ukwaliwa kwaye ungathandi.
- Phinda uphinde uphinde wathi, kwaye uphinde uphinde. Uyakuqonda ukuba uyamamela, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, bayaqonda. Musa ukugqithisa.
- Ukuba uyafuna uku, Ukukunceda, qala isicelo sakho kumagama "Ndidinga uncedo lwakho ..." . Abantu abathandi ukufumana imvakalelo yokuziva unetyala, ngenxa yoko aniyi kuba nakho ukwala.
- Ukuba umntu akakuthandi, mbuze ipensile. Kwelinye icala, abantu abayithambene ekuncedeni abo bangayithandiyo, kodwa kwelinye, abancinci kakhulu bacela ukuba angavumi. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uyaweyiseka ukuba akanguye kwaye uninzi awuyithandi.
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