Nceda ufunde kude kube sekupheleni. I-Regina Brett, eneminyaka engama-90 ubudala, uCleveland, eOhio
Ukufuna ukubhiyozela isikhumbuzo sakho seminyaka engama-45, ndizizifundo ezingama-45 ezandifundisa ubomi. Le yeyona kholan yakho ifuna yonke ikholam yonke endikhe ndayibhala. Ndibrawe 90, kwaye ndilapha kwiKholamu yoLuntu kwakhona:
Nye. Ubomi abunabulungisa, kodwa bulungile.
2. Ukuba uyathandabuza, yenza igumbi ngaphambili.
3. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungayichitha entiyo.
ezine. Umsebenzi awuzukukhathalela xa ugula. Oku kuyakwenza abahlobo bakho kunye nabazali. Zikhathalele obu budlelwane.
Ntlanu. Inyanga nganye ihlawula amatyala kwiibhanki.
6. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uphumelele kwimbambano nganye. Vumelana okanye ungavumelani.
7. Ukulila nomntu. Iphatha ngcono kunokukhala wedwa.
Sibhozo. Ivumelekile ukuba nomsindo kuThixo. Uya kuqonda.
Thoba. Khuphela umhlala-phantsi kumvuzo wokuqala.
10. Xa kufikwa kwitshokholethi, ayinantsingiselo.
Shumi elinanye. Ndixolelane nexesha lakho elidlulileyo ukuze ingakonakalisi.
12. Unganakho ukulila phambi kwabantwana bakho.
13. Sukuthelekisa ubomi bakho nomntu. Awunolwazi lokuba kufuneka babone enyanisweni.
Shumi elinane. Ukuba ubudlelwane bufanele bube yimfihlo, akufuneki uthathe inxaxheba kuyo.
Shumi elinantlanu. Yonke into inokutshintsha kwi-blink yeliso. Kodwa ungakhathazeki: UThixo akasoze angenelele.
Shumi elinesthandathu. Thatha umphefumlo onzulu. Oku kuyazala iingcinga.
17. Susa yonke into engabizwa ngokuba iluncedo, intle okanye ihlekisa.
Shumi elinesibhozo. Yintoni engabulali, ikwenza womelele.
Shumi elinethoba. Akuphele kade ukuze ube nobuntwana obonwabileyo. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana wesibini uxhomekeke kuphela kuwe.
Amashumi amabini. Xa ixesha lifika ukulandela oko ukuthandayo kobu bomi, ungathi "hayi."
21. Amakhandlela e-Luggage, sebenzisa amashiti amahle, enxibe iimpahla ezintle zangaphantsi. Sukugcina nantoni na ngesihlandlo esikhethekileyo. Eli tyala likhethekileyo namhlanje.
22. Lungiselela okungaphezulu, emva koko ube.
23. Yiba seccentric ngoku. Sukulinda ukwaluphala ukubeka iimpahla ezibomvu ezikhanyayo.
24. Owona mzimba ubalulekileyo kwisini senziwe ngengqondo.
25 Akukho namnye, ngaphandle kwakho, unoxanduva lwakho.
26. Ngayo nayiphi na into ebizwa ngokuba yintlekele, buza lo mbuzo: Ngaba kuya kubaluleka kwiminyaka emihlanu?
27. Soloko ukhetha ubomi.
28. Kulungile yonke into kwaye wonke umntu.
29. Oko abanye bacinga ngawe akufuneki bakukhathaze.
Amashumi amathathu. Ixesha liphatha phantse yonke into. Nika ixesha ixesha.
31. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba imeko imbi okanye ilungile - iya kutshintsha.
32. Sukuzithatha kakhulu. Akukho mntu uyenzayo.
33. Kholelwa kwimimangaliso.
34. UThixo uyakuthanda kuba nguThixo, kwaye kungenjalo ngenxa yento oyenzileyo okanye hayi.
35 Akukho sidingo sokufunda ubomi. Uvela kuyo kwaye wenze kangangoko unexesha.
I-36 Vumelana-Inzuzo enye indlela yokufa ukuze ndife.
37. Abantwana bakho banekamva elinye kuphela.
38. Yonke into ethe yavakala ekugqibeleni yile nto uyifumene uthando.
39. Phuma yonke imihla. Imimangaliso yenzeka kuyo yonke indawo.
40. Ukuba besizibeke zonke iingxaki zethu kwiqela kwaye sabathelekisa nabantu ongabaziyo, siya kusizisela ezethu.
41. Umona yinkcitho yexesha. Sele unayo yonke into oyifunayo.
42. Nangona kunjalo, eyona ilungileyo ilinde phambili.
43. Ayinamsebenzi indlela oziva ngayo, khwela, unxibe kwaye uye ebantwini.
44. Unike.
45. Nangona ubomi kwaye ungakhange uboshwe ngesaphetha, kusesipho.
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