Iwe ungangodaro wakaramba uchinzwa kutaurwa kwakakurumbira kwevabereki "usataure nevanhu vausingazive." Asi zvekuita mumamiriro ezvinhu kana mwana ari mungozi chaiyo uye anoda kubatsira mutorwa - semuenzaniso, mupurisa? Vabereki vomufaro vanodzidzisa vana vavo mutemo uri nyore uyo ungavadzivirira kubva mukubudiswa.
Jody Norton, Amai vevana vana, nguva pfupi yadarika vakataura muBlog yake, sechidzidzo chakapusa chakaponesa vanakomana vake vaviri. Uye heino nyaya yake kubva kumunhu wekutanga.
Mazuva matatu apfuura, pandakanga ndiri mumweya, ndakanzwa kurwadza kurwadza mu ovary. Ini nenzira inoshamisa yaive nesimba rakakwana rekupfeka uye pamwe chete nevana vangu vana kuti vaende kuDhipatimendi reMunharaunda.
Panguva iyoyo, apo, nekuda kwekurwadziwa, ini ndaisiya vanakomana vangu, ini neyechirume-makore gumi nematanhatu-gore-long - kunze kwebhenji takamirira muvakidzani wedu, ndiani Yakanaka-yakapihwa kuti uuye kwavari uye uende navo kuchikoro.
Ivo chete pavakadzoka vakomana vangu kumba na15: 30, ndakadzidza kuti vaive vanonoka kuchikoro. Ini ndaitenda zvisizvo kuti muvakidzani aienda kwavari kubva paimba yake, aiva maminetsi mashanu, asi kutaura zvazviri, vanakomana vangu vaive vakamirira pakamuri yekukurumidzira kwemaminetsi makumi mana. Nyaya yavo pane zvakaitika panguva ino yakandiita kuti ndideye kutya uye panguva imwe cheteyo kupenga vanodada nazvo.
Ivo pavakanga vagara pamusoro pebhenji, musikana akauya kwavari pakambani panki maviri ndokumbiridzwa, vaizoenda kuimba yekutandarira, kwaiitirwa murume wake kubva kuna vanachiremba, uye kumuita kuti aende kunorapwa.
Kunyangwe mushure mekunge Sigi achipindura "Kwete," havana kubaya kumashure.
"Ndapota, iwe unogona kumununura hupenyu, kana ukangoenda kuchimbuzi woMuudza kuti wakachengeteka," musikana akaramba achigara.
Zvinoenderana nekugara, chete mushure mekutadza vatatu, mutorwa akabatirwa uye akaenda. Kana muvakidzani akazosvika pavakomana vangu, vakakwanisa kuona kuti mutorwa wechinomwe akabuda muchimbuzi uye akasvetukira mumota kusvika kune vatatu vekutanga, vobva vabva kwavari.
Nevanakomana vachiri kundiudza nyaya iyi, maziso angu akawedzera kutenderedzwa kubva pakushamisika.
Hasha dzangu uye kuvhunduka rakashandurwa mukutenda kukuru. Sigi akataurawo kuti akarangarira zano rangu, iro rakavabatsira kuti vadzivise kutapwa.
"Amai, ndakaziva kuti vaive vanhu vakaipa, nekuti vakatikumbira kuti tivabatsire. Vakuru havabvunze vana nezve rubatsiro. "
"Rega Kukurudzira kuvana vako kuti havagone kugamuchirwa nevasingazive - anonyora mushonga wakachengeteka wezvirongwa zvekusimudzira kwePatty Fitzgerald. - Zvichida rimwe zuva vanofanira kutaura nemurume asina kujaira. Zviri nani kuvadzidzisa kuona kuti vatorwa vane njodzi. "
Patty anokurudzira kubvunza vana kuti vayeuke mutemo mumwe unoreva kuti vanakomana vaJody: Vakuru vasingafunge kutyisidzirwa hakuzombokumbira vana nezve rubatsiro, ivo vanobva vatendeukira kune vamwe vakuru.
Mutsara "wakanyeverwa - zvinoreva kuti wakashonga", pasina mubvunzo zvine chekuita nevana vedu. Hatizogone kukwanisa kugara tiri pedyo nekuvadzivirira kubva kumatambudziko, asi tinogona kuvaisa pasimba uye kudzidzisa zvese zvavanofanira kuita mumamiriro akadaro.
Jody akataura chiitiko ichi mumapurisa, mushure mekunge vaitora marekodhi kubva kuChipatara Vhidhiyo yeVhidhiyo yeSurvellen Camera uye yakatanga nyaya iyi. Iyi nyaya yakatanga kuyeuchidza kuti zvakakosha sei kutsanangurira vana vako, maitiro ekuita nevatorwa uye kuverenga avo vanogona kumiririra kutyisidzira kuri pakati pavo. Pane imwe nguva, ruzivo urwu runogona kuponesa vana vako hupenyu!
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