Mu mitima y'abantu twe, abagore, ni ubwoko bwa Ahilles icya gatanu. Cyane iyo badukunda. Abategarugori benshi babaza ikibazo: Bavuga uburyo bwo kubaza umugabo we kubaha cyangwa ubundi buryo bwo gutsinda niba yanze cyangwa yirengagije cyangwa yirengagije? Nibyo nkubwira: Urasaba nabi. Igihe kirageze cyo guhindura amayeri!
1. Tanga ubushyuhe
Kumwenyura, kubabaza silia yawe. Amaherezo, uzi gukinisha, hanyuma iyi ntwaro imaze gukubita umugabo wawe. Muri leta, iyo uzamutsengurura akajagari, ntibizashobora kwanga. Byongeye kandi, umuntu wese arashaka kwishima umugore we, kandi niba umugore yishimye kandi yishimye, yishimye, kandi yishimye kandi anyurwa numugabo.2. Ba umukobwa ukundana ukeneye ubufasha
Yabaye umugabo wawe kuberako agukunda gusa, ahubwo ashaka kuberako ashaka kugabanya ibibazo byawe nawe, fasha gukemura ibibazo byawe. Niba uvuze icyifuzo cyo kwihanganira imyanda cyangwa wicare hamwe nabana bitajyanye nitsinda rya mwarimu wishuri, bihita byerekana ko ari umugabo, kandi uri munsi yumugabo we urinda. Reka inkoni ifunguye munzu yawe amabati, kandi urabishimira kubwibyo. Bisaba byinshi!
3. Tanga bike, fata bike
Ubu buryo bukora neza mugihe usabye ikintu gikomeye. Kandi iyo uzi ko dusaba byinshi. Ubwa mbere, shimangira ibitekerezo kubimaze gukora, hanyuma uvuge icyifuzo. Nkuko, abana bafite aya mayeri batunze neza: Imvugo "Mama, namaze gukora amasomo, nshobora kugendana nabasore?" - Amagambo ya kera. Urashobora kuvuga ikintu nkiki: "Nateguye ifunguro rya nimugoroba kandi ngugura byeri ukunda, urashobora gukaraba no kumarana, kugeza igihe nzahurira nabakobwa?"4. Massage
Tekinike kubona ikintu cyose. Abagabo basenga massage. Iyo baroroshye mu mirimo y'abagore bafite ubuhanga, biteguye gusohoza igihe icyo ari cyo cyose.
5. Vuga nta magambo
Jya ku bashakanye, jya kumuhobera, kanda gato ku gishushanyo cye gikomeye cy'ubutwari no gusomana - birebire kandi witonze. Gusomana nkigihe cyanyuma. Reka bimbure no gutungurwa. Gusomana bigomba gutungurwa. Hanyuma ucya kabiri, nyuma ya 2-3, nyuma yibyo, baza icyo ushaka. Reba, azishimira gusohoza icyifuzo cyawe.
Icy'ingenzi ntabwo ari ukugira ishyaka. Ntukimuke kuri manipulation. Yishe umubano uwo ari wo wose. Kora ubwo buhanga igice cyumukino ushobora gutwika umuriro ugashyigikira umuryango wawe bonfire.
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