Kodi ndingathe kuvala zinthu za anthu ena?

Malamulo Oyambirira

Chilichonse si chinthu, ena mwa chipindacho, omwe munthu amamva thupi lake. Munthu akanyamula chinthu china, chimadzaza mphamvu ndi mphamvu zake ndipo koposa zonse, chinthu ichi chimapeza kulumikizana kwa Mbuye wake, pomwe amakhala gawo la chithunzi chake.

Ndiye kuti, chilichonse chako chimakhala ndi chidziwitso cholumikizirana nanu, kuzindikira (kuganiza, zokumana nazo, zomwe mumakumana nazo) ndi magulu ena adziko lapansi omwe mumayang'anira. Mwanjira ina, zitha kunenedwa kuti chilichonse chanu ndi chaching'ono koma gwero la mphamvu zanu. Ndiye kuti, munthu amene anayamba kuvala chinthu chanu amatha kupeza mphamvu zanu, ndipo mphamvu zanu zidzamulimbikitsa.

Padzakhala zotsatira zoyipa kapena zosatheka - zimatengera zinthu zambiri.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati anthu awiri amakondana, ndipo mkazi amakhala ndi malaya a mamuna, pomwe kulibe kunyumba - nthawi zambiri siowopsa. Amamukonda, amasowa mphamvu zake zachimuna, ndipo zimawalipira chifukwa cha zomwe zimavala zomwe zimadzazidwa ndi mphamvu zake. Ali bwino pamenepa, ndipo ali bwino.

Zofananazo zitha kunenedwa za ana omwe amakonda kuvala zinthu makolo omwe amakonda. Izi ndi zokhudzana ndi mphamvu za amayi awo ndi abambo. Nthawi zambiri zimatha kugwira ntchito ngati kubweza kwa nthawi yolumikizana, etc.

Ndiye kuti kuvala zinthu za munthu wina kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino. Izi, kuphatikiza kulumikizana ndi chifanizo cha munthu wina, ndipo, moyenera, m'malo mwake chomwe chingaphunzitsidwe. Mwachitsanzo, Mwana akamayesetsa kukalamba za abambo ake kapena m'bale wokalamba, wolimba mtima, ndi mphamvu komanso amalumikizana ndi chithunzi cha wankhondo wopanda mantha, omwe ndi eni ake yunifolomu. Ndipo kenako iye samangoyesa munthu wina, akungokumana ndi vuto linalake, kumverera, mphamvu zapadera zolimba mtima, ulemu, kupanda mantha, ndipo pakadali pano zomwe zikugwirizana ndi mikhalidwe yake. Ino ndi nthawi yakuleredwa, yomwe imapereka kukula kwauzimu.

Koma ndizotheka kuphunzira ndi kutenga pang'ono, koma osati zabwino zokhazo, komanso zoipa.

Mukavala zinthu za anthu ena osavomerezeka ndipo ngakhale zoopsa?

Kuvala zinthu za anthu ena sikuyima nthawi zingapo:

1. Ngati mwininyumbayo alibe bwino, odwala, kapena munthu woipa kwambiri (amanyamula zoipa zambiri). Zinthu zonse za munthu wotere nthawi zambiri zimadzazidwa kwambiri, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowononga kapena zopanda pake, zomwe munthu wabwinobwino amatha kukhala woipa kwambiri. Ngati mumavala munthu wosauka kapena wopanda pake, mavuto ake, matenda, matendawa, kungowononga mphamvu kungakuthandizeni ndi zomwe mukuwononga. Ndikuganiza kuti munamva kuti zinthu zitha kuvala themberero, yemwe chonyamula pake ndi eni ake. Ngakhale, kachiwiri, chinthucho chitha kutsukidwa ndi miyambo yapadera ya esotchic.
2. Osamavala zinthu zakufa, makamaka ngati achotsedwa mu mtembo.
3. Palibenso chifukwa chovala zinthu zatsopano ngati mulibe malingaliro omwe amakuvekerani. Koma apa pali kuchitika, chifukwa chinthu chilichonse chitha kuchitika ndi Ake Omwe, kuchotsa mphamvu ya mwiniwake kunja kwa iye, ndikulumikiza ndi mphamvu zake. ASSOROTERICISCISMSCISMS, ochiritsa nthawi zonse amasangalala ndi mateyi oterowo, ngakhale atapeza chinthu chatsopano m'sitolo.

Ngati mwapeza mtundu kapena gawo lakokongoletsa, ngati wina wakupatsani kena kake - chinthu ichi chiyenera kukhala champhamvu komanso chophunzitsira mwamphamvu zanu.

Kodi mungapange bwanji mphamvu ndi kuchotsa mphamvu ya munthu wina? Chiwembu.

1. Kukopa kwa magulu apamwamba kwambiri komanso kwa phantom kale kuti ali ndi pempho kuti atenge mphamvu zanu ku zinthu ndi kulumikizana konse.
2. Funsani mphamvu yapamwamba kwambiri komanso makolo awo - kuchotsa kapena kuwotcha malumikizidwe onse ndi mphamvu kuchokera ku chinthu ichi. Zonsezi zachitika, makamaka, mu monogram-monogram. Mutha kulumikizana m'mawu anuanu, mwa mtundu wa pemphero mochokera pansi pamtima. Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kutumiza dzanja lanu lamanja ku chinthu chosankhidwa kuti chikhale chamoto chimafikira, ndipo mphamvu zonse zochulukirapo zidawotchedwa.
3. Funsani ku mphamvu zapamwamba kwambiri ndi oyang'anira awo - perekani nkhani yomwe mumapanga nokha, zonse zomwe mukufuna, mudzazeni ndi mphamvu zabwino komanso zamunthu, kuti izi zikhale bwino.

Koma ngati matsenga ofotokozedwa pamwamba pa miyamboyi amawukitsidwa, nthawi zambiri, sikhala yokwanira. Kuchotsa matsenga kuchokera kuzinthu kapena kuwonongeka - mukufuna ntchito ya katswiri.

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