Mwina mwamvapo mobwerezabwereza za makolo "sizilankhula ndi anthu osawadziwa." Koma choti ndichite pamavuto ngati mwana ali pachiwopsezo chenicheni ndipo akufunika thandizo la mlendo - mwachitsanzo, wapolisi? Makolo amakono amaphunzitsa ana awo lamulo losavuta lomwe lingawateteze ku ukani.
Jady Norton, amayi a ana anayi, angouzidwa posachedwa mu blog, monga momwe linasiyira ana ake anapulumutsa ana ake awiri. Nayi nkhani yake kuchokera kwa munthu woyamba.
Masiku atatu apitawa, pamene ine ndinali mu moyo, ndinamva kuwawa kwambiri mu ovary. Ndidakhala ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuvala komanso pamodzi ndi ana anga anayi oti ndipite ku dipatimenti yadzidzidzi.
Pamenepo, pamene, chifukwa cha zowawa, ine sindinkamvetsa chilichonse, ndinasiya ana anga okalamba, ti-ti-tong-tong - kunja pa benchi kudikirira anzathu, omwe Zoperekedwa bwino zoperekedwa kuti zibwere kwa iwo ndikupita nawo kusukulu.
Koma anyamata anga akabwerera kunyumba nthawi ya 15:30, ndinamva kuti anali atachedwa kupita kusukulu. Ndikhulupirira kuti woyandikana naye ndimapita kwa iwo kunyumba kwake, omwe anali atatsala kasanu, koma ana anga anali kuyembekezera ku chipinda chadzidzidzi kwa mphindi 40. Nkhani yawo yonena za zomwe zidachitika nthawi ino idandipangitsa kuchititsa mantha kuchokera ku mantha komanso nthawi yomweyo amakwiya kuti anyadire.
Pamene anakhala pa benchi, mtsikana anadza kwa iwo gulu la panks awiri, nati, iwo akanakhoza kupita ku chimbuzi, pamene iye munthu anali kubisalira madotolo, ndi kutsimikizira kuti apite kunja ndi kupita chithandizo.
Ngakhale Sigi atayankha kuti "Ayi," sanasunthe kumbuyo.
"Chonde, mutha kumupulumutsa, mukangopita kuchimbudzi ndi kumuuza kuti alibwino," mtsikanayo anapitiriza kukhala.
Malinga ndi kukhalapo, pambuyo pa zolephera zitatu zokha, mlendoyo adadzipereka ndipo apita. Woyandikana nawo atafika pa anyamata anga, adatha kuwona momwe mlendo adatuluka mchimbudzi ndikulumpha mgalimoto mpaka atatuwo, pambuyo pake adachoka.
Pamene ana aamuna anandiuza nkhani iyi, maso anga anali osemitsidwa modabwa.
Mkwiyo wanga komanso kugwedezeka kosinthika kukhala kothokoza kwakukulu. Sigi ananenanso kuti akukumbukira upangiri wanga, yemwe anawathandiza kuti asagwidwe.
"Amayi, ndinadziwa kuti anali anthu oyipa, chifukwa amatifunsa kuti tiziwathandiza. Akuluakulu sapempha ana za thandizo. "
"Imani Kulimbikitsa ana anu kuti asalandiridwe ndi alendo - amalemba mkonzi woyenera wa zinthu za Patty Fitzgerald. - Mwina tsiku lina adzayenera kulankhula ndi munthu wosadziwika. Bola ndiphunzitse kuti adziwe zomwe alendo ndizowopsa. "
Pattyty amalimbikitsanso kupempha kuti ana azikumbukira ulamuliro wina womwe ana a Judy adamvera: Akuluakulu omwe saganiza kuti zoopsezedwa sizingawafunse kwa ana, adzatembenukira kwa akulu ena.
Mawu akuti "anachenjezedwa - amatanthauza kukhala ndi zida", mosakayikira amakhudza ana athu. Sitingakhale pafupi kuti tiwateteze ku mavuto, koma titha kuwagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndikuphunzitsa zonse zomwe ayenera kuchita pazotere.
Judy adanenapo za chochitikachi apolisi, pambuyo pake adatenga zolemba kuchokera ku makamera akupita kuchipatala ndikuyambitsa mlanduwo. Nkhaniyi ikutikumbutsanso kufunika kofotokozera ana anu kuti, momwe mungakhalire ndi alendo ndi kuwerengera omwe angaimire chiopsezo chenicheni pakati pawo. Nthawi ina, chidziwitsochi chitha kupulumutsa ana anu moyo wanu!
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